by John Godinez | Gaslighting, Isolation, Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
Finally! Merriam Webster’s word of the year is GASLIGHTING! The education is WORKING! Keep sharing your survival stories! Keep educating people on the red flags! Keep calling out the abusers and the abusive behaviors. Abusers and abusive behavior need to be made...
by John Godinez | Isolation, Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
Last week was very difficult. In Phoenix, Arizona, Jason Hudgens decided that because his wife, Marla, wanted to end the marriage, he decided to end their three children’s lives, her life, and lastly, his. The babes, three-year-old Christopher and twin six-month-old...
by John Godinez | Gaslighting, Love bombing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
Ah, November! The air is crisp, the holidays are coming up and you are a bundle of anxiety over how to keep your sanity with your family or ex, or both. Abusers are notorious for ruining the holidays! It doesn’t matter what holiday. Thanksgiving? They’ll ruin it!...
by John Godinez | Gaslighting, Love bombing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
Most people think the scariest thing about October is Halloween. In reality October is scary because it is the beginning of the hoover season. Between now and right after Valentine’s Day is when the emotional vampires attempt to feed. Abusers need constant...
by Kris Godinez | Discredit, Isolation, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
Abusers are all about power and control. What better way to have power and control over someone than to force them in to being a parent and sharing custody? Abusers want to secure their supply so they will future fake their partner into making them believe that they...
by Kris Godinez | Discredit, Mask wearing, Narcissistic Personality Discorder
You would not believe, (or maybe you would!) how many times I get asked that. Please put your mind at ease…if you are worried about being the narcissist or the abuser I can pretty much guarantee that you are not! Abusers and narcissists in particular do not care if...